The Thanksgiving Holiday is a great reminder of why, as people and realtors, we do the things that we do. The Three Questions: In the children’s book, “The Three Questions,” based on a story by the great Russian writer Leonid Tolstoy, young Nikolai seeks answers to three questions that he has been agonizing over for some time:… Read More
My Hedges, Dad And Michelangelo
My friend Gary and I had dinner last week. Since he had yet to see my house, he met me there before we left for the restaurant. As the owner of a Fairfield County, Ct. landscaping business, property is of particular importance to Gary. While he perused the back yard from my kitchen window, he emphatically questioned, “Al, have you ever mowed your lawn yourself? I… Read More
The Words You Choose
Words convey underlying messages that create physical, emotional and spiritual responses in ourselves and others. Language can be empowering or debilitating, and have an immense impact on your career and your life. Below are a few simple suggestions that can dramatically change the course of a conversation and the messages that you send about yourself. Replace: With: Should May want to consider Need to Would… Read More
Cutting Your Losses
“Hope is the worst of evils, for it prolongs the torment of man.” Friedrich Nietzsche. The Client Conundrum The above quote from Nietzsche is one that resounds deeply for many Realtors. It begs the question, at what point do I cut my losses? At which juncture do I make the determination that “this buyer is never going to buy” and that continuing to invest… Read More
Should Have
“The past can suck you in like black holes.” – Dan Rockwell, Leadership Freak Should Have As business leaders prepare to put a bow on 2012, I hear a lot of regret in their voices. Comments referring to what they feel they “should have done.” Focusing on what you should have done is debilitating. “Should have” demeans and debases your… Read More